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28 Jul, 2008

Comments are sweet sweet love…

Posted by: x10 In: Life| SEO

I’ve been putting off writing this article for a while now, because it’s long been my “game plan” to make at least 10 comments a day on other blogs.  For some reason I just can’t get into the rhythm of it.  Thus, this article is as much an internal exercise for me as for anyone else who reads it. I need a kick in the commenting pants!

I’ve been blogging now for about 3 months and I still have a very small readership.  (Nothing like the image above I borrowed from Flickr!)  Even still, I’m motivated because every once in a while I get a decent comment on something I’ve written. Heck, at this point, I don’t even care if it’s decent, just as long as someone is there on the other end and they aren’t spamming me.

Why comment?

If you don’t blog write your own blog, then you may not have felt what it’s like to post and wait for comments:  You post your article… you wait a bit, you twiddle your thumbs.  You refresh your inbox for potential comments.  You wait.  Days go by.  Check analytics.  Wait.  Check feedburner.  Gradually, your enthusiasm fizzles.

But that one comment, that one jewel that pops up unexpectedly is enough to keep you going.

Comments = Blogger’s currency

If you read someones blog and you love it, then comment on it!  Participate in the conversation the author has started.  Add a new point, a counter point, or a similar link/post you may know of.  If you find yourself in awe of how great the post is, and you notice yourself adding it to your faves, then say that too!  Think of your comment as a donation or a vote for the author and what they are doing. Let them know you appreciate it.

Join the 1 Percent

One percent of people are producers.  1 percent of all the people who use wikipedia write all of the content for it.  1 out of 100 people will ever comment on a blog.  Probably only 1 percent of people who eat at a restaurant will post up a review on Yelp or other review sites.

The other ninety-nine percent absorb and don’t actively participate.  Which isn’t wrong, but I wonder if for some people (like me) it’s as simple as forgetfulness.  Commenting hasn’t been hardwired into my routine - almost like forgetting my manners when I’m ripping through my feed reader.

For more on where I got these numbers, see my post called The One Percenters.  While you’re there, notice that the first comment on this post was from Jackie Huba who authored the book I was writing about… and she totally made my week when she did!!  Comments really are love.

7 Responses to "Comments are sweet sweet love…"

1 | Chris

July 28th, 2008 at 11:17 am

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Showing some comment love ;) Great points Christen.

2 | Erica

July 28th, 2008 at 7:07 pm

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More comment love being sent your way from your home sweet home country of Canada. It’s all one big conversation - but even when your commenting numbers are low, we’re still reading!

3 | Ron

August 2nd, 2008 at 11:44 am

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Very good post. I’m not particularly great about commenting, in part because for a long time, I was bad about reading other people’s blogs. I will say, that the increase of my own traffic has made me more likely to read — but only people who I trust and whose opinions that I respect. I think what I need to do, is learn how to make thoughtful mention of the stuff I read.

Part of the problem is, none of the people in my immediate circle are really into the stuff I’m into in regards to the web, so my contacts are largely virtual and as a result, it makes it a bit more difficult to riff about big ideas that I’ve seen online, since the people who are listening don’t have the background or care much about the subjects.

4 | Linda

August 5th, 2008 at 1:27 pm

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Blogging should be like a conversation, and but when no one is participating then its not a blog, its just a ranting, which I know you aren’t meaning to do. I do read your comments and my head nods with most of your comments, but technology isn’t to a point where you can see it.
I promise to make my head bobbing more noticable in the future.
Keep it up.

5 | Paul

August 9th, 2008 at 5:13 am

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Hi Christian, I followed the crumb trail from your comment back to this page. I think that a strategy of 10 comments a day is a great idea, but if you can start with a limited amount of bloggers and build relationships with them, this might be more beneficial than a blanket approach. Anyway, thanks for the comment.

6 | Brian Monahan, Expert in the Rough

August 24th, 2008 at 6:37 am

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Christen,

Oh the pain of being a new blogger, when I share my blog with friends they don’t even know blogging is an option. I guess I just have to wait until I attract the combination of people who are interested in my topic and embrace the combination.

A comment can make your day, so yes bring on the comments.

Problem is I think the 1% can only read so many blogs.

thanks for your post.

Brian

7 | Shailesh Ghimire

August 26th, 2008 at 10:37 am

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Christen,

I hear ya on that one. The guy who wrote Citizen Marketer commented on my blog once and that made my day too. You have a very nice blog and in time you’ll develop a great readership base.

Thanks for leaving a comment on my blog by the way!

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